Be kind to one another, even when your partner is not treating you the way you want. When you are kind, even when you are tempted to express anger, you will cause the situation to remain peaceful.
Your kind behavior may change a partner who is at the moment hostile and ready to become angry into a pleasant person to be around. For example, if someone is unpleasant toward you, rather than reacting in turn with hostility, ask the offending person how he or she feels. Show interest and concern. This may soften their heart and they will then be nice to you.
Angry behaviors are contagious, so too are behaviors of kindness.
Allowing an irritating or hostile partner to express how he or she feels is an act of kindness and may quickly transform a tense and difficult moment into one that is pleasant. Kindness crushes anger!
Make life easier for all; live without anger and seek opportunities to be kind. However, some individuals are difficult people, and being kind to them may not help the situation. In some situations, it may even make it worse. If you are living in a situation like this, getting professional guidance is essential.
Regardless of your situation, if you get angry you will only add to the other person’s anger and make the situation worse. Use your anger management to stay calm regardless of the situation.